If I say everything can be regarded as evaluation, you might disagree with me by answering ”I know it is important, but connecting evaluation with everything? I don’t think so”.
Wait a minute, before you jump to conclusion, let me give you some examples.
Your Mr. or Mrs. Right bought a new dress and asking “Hi, honey, do you think I am pretty in this skirt?”. What you gonna say?For ten years you have not seen your classmates after graduation. In the gathering party, you saw her again and what you gonna say? A new employee has just finished his first public talk in your team. “what do you think of my speech and how can I improve?” what you gonna say?After one day’s work, at night lying on bed for self-reflection, when recalling your performance during the whole day, what you gonna say?I am sure up to now, you begin to believe that both in life and work, everything, or at least most of them can be regarded as evaluation since the world is nothing but a reflection in our eyes and we want to live in a better way with added value. 
Reflection plus added value is evaluation!
Here comes the challenge, how to make good evaluations in an encouraging and helpful manner? The best and easiest way is the “sandwich principle”!Come and join our toastmaster meeting this Friday 1210-1310 at AAC C322.
12:10-13:10, Friday, February 26, 2016Table Topics Master: Rambo GuoPrepared Speech Speakers: Daniel SongGeneral Evaluator: Andy Gan 这样的情景我们可能都经历过，这种害怕的感觉也是你生活中的一部分，害怕是人类的天性，是自我保护的一种方式。但土马的伙伴们要告诉你，在这个舞台上，你不需要害怕，只要你勇敢的面对，你会发现你的内心比想象中强大，不要向你真正能够控制的事物低头，因为你无法知道你到底有多大的潜在能量。与其放弃梦想、迟迟面对恐惧，不如现在就面对它、享受努力带来的回报。 每一次你做出的决定都是最勇敢的，做你想做的事，结果也会是你最想要的。
不要害怕那些看不见的东西，认识真正的自我，你才是主人。
其实害怕并不一定是坏事，你要做的就是静下心来做更多的准备。
The more you like yourself,the less you are like anyone else, which makes you unique.你越喜欢你自己，你就越不像其他人，而这会使你变得独特。在 1978 年春天 Gloria Gaynor 在欧洲登台时不小心跌落舞台，使得 脊髓受损并卧病在床达九个月之久，加上复健期间母亲又去世，这许多的打击几乎让她崩溃。康复后她努力振作，找来了两位制作人 Dino Fekaris、Freddie Perren 共同写下这首 <I Will Survive>证明自己战胜了怯懦，这首歌的推出，便将Gloria Gaynor 推上事业的巅峰就。如同歌词所写到的 "I've Got All My Life To Live，I Will Survive" 一样。当我们遇到的困难使我们彷徨时，一定要再坚持看看，因为这次的收获会更大。
改曲也被作为电影《火星救援》的片尾曲。在寸草不生的火星，当求生的欲望战胜了对死亡的恐惧，走到尽头后，终于发现只有自己才能拯救自己。Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I, I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give and I'll survive
图文/徐冠博、乔瑞、王丽哲、缑通
本期编辑：周佳毅、宋一超
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